My mom Helen has magical powers. I realized this when I was tiny, wandering off to bed after family dinner and awaking to a world of intricate baked goods, hand-lettered posters or beaded wedding gowns. No matter the occasion, my mom was creating something special for it, into the wee hours of post-midnight. With five kids and a husband, birthdays came around quickly, always celebrated with fanfare and homemade cake. I can hear the mixer spinning and see her piping a sweet message with her retro metal icing set.

A couple of hurricane seasons ago, as Irma threatened my family and hometown on the east coast of central Florida, my sister mused, “I wish I could put her on a plane to stay with you.” and so it was! With a bit of arm twisting, a few days after mom’s 88th birthday, she boarded a direct flight from Orlando to New Orleans. I asked what she would like for dinner when she arrived. She didn’t miss a beat: “Duck. Louisiana style.” The month she stayed with us is time I will treasure forever! We cooked nonstop.

Last year we moved her to assisted living after a couple of serious health scares. She turned 90 in August and is thriving in her new environment. “I really like it here!” she sings. Truly music to my ears. Her only lament is that she can no longer cook. I had a great phone call with her this week to flashback on her food memories.

What’s your 20 minute recipe? Borscht! Cold beet soup. It’s very nice in the summer, so refreshing. The beauty of it is that it’s fast, not much preparation. Just chill a can of beets and a can of beef consommé. Pour them both into the blender and blend until smooth. Add the juice of half a lime, pour it into bowls and eat it! Some like to add sour cream.

What’s your favorite city? Melbourne Beach, Florida. It has a nice pier on the river. One of the first restaurants, Poor Richard’s, was so successful. It started out as just a collection of garage sale finds. Djon’s is there now.

What’s your favorite restaurant in your current city? I really like the Fish House. They have fried oysters and mountains of shrimp. It’s kind of dilapidated from the front and that’s it’s charm. And the Yellow Dog is excellent for a special occasion.

Treasured find in the back of your fridge? My sister in law left me a pound of Irish butter. What an unexpected treat!

Who taught you to cook? My mother was a very good cook. We also had cooks in our home and my sister and I always hung around the kitchen watching them. I never did take Home-Ec. I’ve learned a lot by doing. My first successful cake was when I was 12. I didn’t get into pies until later after I watched a woman from the Alabama Extension Service making a pie in a store window. I was just passing by as she was crimping her crust and I said, “I think I can do that!” since my success with my cake.

How many pies have you baked? Two a week for 50 years sounds about right, and maybe one a week for ten years after that. You do the math! (my calculation says 5,720).

What’s your go-to dish for company? Fried chicken. I think it’s what people like the most, for sure! Some of the other things you couldn’t be sure.

Coffee, tea, or Kombucha? I don’t know what Kombucha is. Back in the day I liked coffee.

Surf? or Turf? I would rather have the surf. I like shellfish. I LOVE crab! It’s one of my favorites.

Most stained cookbook? Probably The Joy of Cooking. It’s like an encyclopedia, you could find anything in there.

Indispensable kitchen tool? My mixer!!

Staple childhood comfort food? Dill pickles. Whole ones with a glass of milk.

Who would you most like to share a meal with? past, present or fictional? I think I’d like to share a meal with your dad.

Best thing you’ve ever eaten in an airport? I got some sushi that was really good, probably the Atlanta airport.

Ideal grilled cheese? Aged cheddar, thicker than normal sliced bread and I’d put in a slice of tomato and grill it with butter. Not TOO much butter so it’s not too messy on your hands when you eat it. And that’s it!

Favorite pizza topping? I like pepperoni, mushrooms, green peppers, different variety of cheeses and chopped anchovies. Nestle them down in the cheese so they don’t get dried out.

Where would you want to take a cooking class? I’ve had some excellent food in New Orleans over the years. I’d like to take a cooking class there.

What’s your favorite community service cooking memory? When I was teaching confirmation classes at the church, our project was to cook and serve at Daily Bread Kitchen. Years later some of the patrons would come back with big donations as a thank you for helping them when they needed it.

What’s your Counter Intelligence cooking tip? I like the idea of using older eggs for hard boiling. If you salt the water and take the pan off the heat after the water boils, let them sit for 12 minutes, it makes them easier to peel. Another one is when you do a pie, butter the surface of the dough to seal it off from the filling so the crust doesn’t get soggy.

What’s your favorite sports team? My favorite to watch is the ice skating competitions.

Ideal indeed! Grilled aged cheddar on thick-sliced bread with tomato. Serve with slices of Florida sunshine:)

Helen’s Grilled Cheese

Dear Reader: This sandwich is at the top of my list of childhood comfort foods. Full disclosure, beets are a hard no for me so I’m choosing to highlight the glory of this grilled cheese instead of mom’s borscht. If you adore beets, give her super easy from-the-pantry recipe a go. Happy Cooking!

For each serving you will need: 2 slices of bread, some soft butter, thick slices of aged cheddar, tomato slices.

HEAT a medium skillet over medium-low heat. Spread the outside of each slice of bread with butter. Set one slice, butter side down, in the skillet as it heats. Top with an even layer of cheese, then slices of tomato, then another layer of cheese. Top with the second slice of bread, butter side out.

COOK the sandwich low and slow to melt the bottom layer of cheese. When the underside of the sandwich is your preferred shade of golden, carefully flip and cook the second side. When side two is golden and all the cheese is melted, maybe with some sizzling out on the hot skillet, remove to your waiting plate. Cut the sandwich in half on the diagonal for maximum enjoyment. Serve with orange slices.